Perfect… Really?

While getting my hair done yesterday my stylist, Diana and I got on the topic of perfection.  She and I were talking about how easy it is to want to have everything around us perfect and in order.  I have gone through seasons of my life where I would be happy only if my house was clean, or I was at the ‘ideal’ weight, or if my yard was just so.  I hope you get the picture.  I was content when things, including myself, were perfect.  As you can probably guess, the times were few and far between when I would be happy because life was just not meant to be perfect… neither are we.

At one point in our conversation Diana mentioned some insight the Lord had given her friend.  He had asked her to picture a field of grass.  As she pictured this He spoke to her and pointed out that the grass is not perfect.  It is not meant to be perfect.  Yet it is beautiful and purposeful.  I can’t remember exactly what else was said, but picturing this field was enough to make me realize that it would be good for me to relax a bit and look at things from a higher perspective.  If we would look down upon our lives like we look down at a field of grass, we would realize that it really does look beautiful even though it is not perfect.

Take a moment and do this.  Picture a field of grass and then picture yourself looking down on your life from a higher perspective.  What areas in your life do you strive towards perfection?  Is it keeping you from seeing how beautiful life really is?  It may very well be keeping you from seeing that you are perfectly beautiful.

Make the Connection

As human beings we are constantly trying to connect, with other people, with nature, with God, etc.  We do this with out even realizing it.  I guess it is because we are so relational.   I learned something powerful yesterday as I had to lie down for over an hour while having a medical procedure done.  Since I just had to lie still, the doctor, who is a Christian, began talking to me.  She asked me if I needed a magazine or anything and I said, no, I was completely enjoying the solitude.  She then casually mentioned the great need for us to purposefully connect with God throughout the day.  I pondered that a few moments and then intentionally turned my mind towards God and ‘connected’.  It was wonderful.  Immediately I felt the presence of God swoosh in.  He is always with us, always near us, but I don’t think we always realize that.

As I was driving home I ‘connected’ again and was so blessed as God’s presence and peace surrounded me.  Draw near to God and He will draw near to you.  (James 4:8)  So sweet, so simple, so powerful.  I doubt He would ever tire of us connecting with Him.  After all, He created us so He could have relationship with us.

So if you are feeling discouraged…take a moment to connect with God.  If you need comfort…connect.  I you need wisdom…connect.  The most awesome thing about it is that you have all the ingredients to make this work anytime, anywhere.  You have you and you have God who is always with you.  Be so blessed as you connect throughout the day.

Who’s Watching?

Phil Cooke, co-founder of Cooke Pictures, explained that Christians get “distracted” from the real call because so much time is spent “freaking out over not being able to say a prayer at the start of a high school football game, or upset at Hollywood, the gay community, or others, that we forget that our job is to reach the world, not complain.”  Do we realize how much people are watching us?  Or not?

Are we reaching the world as Cooke points out?  Our mandate is to go into all the world and share the gospel, to exemplify a life filled with the Spirit of the Living God.  Recently  some real yuck came to the surface in my own life.  My older two daughters play high school water polo and I love to go and watch them play.  Usually I am composed and for the most part yell encouraging comments to the girls as they play.  This was not the case at a game a few weeks ago.  I was sitting next to a man who was yelling at the referees and was very unsatisfied with every call that they made.  I am so embarrassed to admit this but I began to do the very same thing!  I was yelling so much that my throat hurt.  Everything those poor refs did made me mad!  By the 3rd quarter the coach’s wife looked at me and said, “Debra, this is so unlike you.”  That is all it took for me to see how awfully I was representing the Kingdom of God.  I had lost focus and had succumbed to stepping down to a lower standard.   I remained very quiet for the rest of the game and eventually apologized to the coach’s wife and thanked her for being so honest with me.

It doesn’t take much sometimes to get distracted and to lose focus of our real mission in life.  The good thing is genuine repentance allows us to get right back to where we should be, influencing those around us with the love, joy and peace of the Kingdom of God.  If they don’t see it in us, how will they know?

Stinkin’ Thinkin’

I think sometimes we need a reality check and take a close look at what we are really saying.  I see some of the craziest belief statements on Facebook. My friend recently shared with me a comment she had seen.  Here’s basically what it said: “I’m not worthy to be married to ______.”  or “I’m not worthy to pastor this church.”  “I’m so unworthy, only Christ is worthy.”  What is up with all of this?  What kind of thinking is that?   As Joyce Meyer would say, “That is stinkin’ thinkin’”  Yet, these kinds of phrases abound in church settings.  I am going to be bold here and just say what I think this is.  Simply stated it is false humility.  Sauced up, juicy, syrupy false humility.  It sounds good but it gets really sticky when aligned with the truth of God and His Word.

God’s word says much to oppose these kinds of statements.  Here are just a few to ponder:
~ We are made in His image (Genesis 1:27).
~ We have been given the mind of Christ (1 Cor. 2:16).
~ God gave His one and only Son for us (John 3:16).
~ We are chosen, made holy and dearly loved by God (Colossians 3:12).
~ We are the righteousness of God through Christ (2 Cor. 5:21).
~ We are children of God (Romans 8:16).

This above list could go on and on and on because God did so much for us so that we could be His representatives here on the earth.  He is pleased with us and proud of us.  Speaking of ourselves as unworthy comes directly from the pit of hell, not the gates of heaven.  This does not honor God our Creator at all.  I really wonder what people are REALLY thinking when they say these kinds of things.

I do understand that at times we think we are unworthy to be called sons and daughters of God, but even this stems from an incorrect understanding of who we are now that Christ is living with in us.  Look up some of the verses I listed above and speak them over yourself.  Personalize them and say them until you believe them.  Then, the next time you hear someone make a slanderous comment about being unworthy, you can speak truth into them.  Only the truth can set us free

Fully Alive!

“Give yourselves completely to God, for you were dead, but now you have new life. So use your whole body as an instrument to do what is right for the glory of God.  Sin is no longer your master, for you no longer live under the requirements of the law. Instead, you live under the freedom of God’s grace.”  Romans 6:13-14

You are now FULLY alive!  That’s right!  Right now are fully alive!

I just love this!  It says to use your whole body as an instrument to do what is right for the glory of God.  I am so inspired right now!  God is giving us permission to be fully alive, to embrace righteousness NOW, not in the future.  Right now we are in right standing with God.  Romans 5:21 says that instead of sin ruling us, “now God’s wonderful grace rules instead, giving us right standing with God…”  Picture this.  Close your eyes and see yourself fully received by the God of the universe.  You may notice your whole being feels lighter or you may feel like you glow.  This is because you do!  You have been declared righteous.  You are beautiful and you have with in you the very nature and glory of God.  Don’t let condemnation or shame or anything keep you from seeing yourself as fully alive.  What you focus on you become.  Become fully alive!  It’s already in you, just access it…right where you are, right now.

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